In our house V-day is not traditional....it's my hubby's birthday! I have made a very big effort towards making the day about HIM, and with that comes my question...when is MY Valentine's Day?
You know, a day other than our anniversary where everyone...including my husband...that they need to tell their spouse how much they are loved? A day where I answer the door and there's a bouquet where someone's head should be and they have to contort themself to see around it to tell me its for me...I don't think I'm going to get this...I want my husband to have a real birthday, but he loves saying that he "gets a free pass" on everything to do with that day. And technically he does.
One day I would like:
....A card from him that doesn't get lost (he lost the last one he bought me because he hid it so well he hid it from me AND himself) and that my mom or my sister doesn't have to remind him to get.
....a "gift", other than a pregnancy craving, that he had planned to get for me.
....a thought out meal, that was made by someone other than me, and I don't even know it until I get to the table.
I'm not upset because I choose to make his birthday special for him. I would just like a "valentine's day" of my own someday...
