Last night I had a conversation with a friend of mine. She has broken up with her long-time boyfriend, and of course, it has really hurt her heart. She loved him...but recent events have proven that he may not have felt the same. She told me that she's studying my relationship with my husband because she see's what she was missing. It's flattering, but I wanted to make sure that she knew that appearances can be decieving.
I know I talk a lot about the great parts of my relationship with my husband, but just to let you know....our marriage isn't perfect, but it's OURS!
We argue, we make mistakes, we have hurt eachother's feelings, and sometimes it feels like we disagree a lot. We are normal, and our imperfection makes us human! What makes us an abnormal couple is that we try really hard to not let the disagreements get out of control, and overshadow the fact that our realtionship is built on a foundation a lot stronger than any argument. We believe in God, and he's what holds us together. Things that are not made together to begin with need glue to stick, right? God is our glue!
I am blessed with a husband who wants to work with me, even when I may be unreasonable. I know that is not always the case in some marriages. I believe wholehartedly that he is my match! I also believe that an arguement every now and then can strengthen your relationship...that's why "making up" was invented ;-). We get over it and we move on to the next thing.
I pray that all of you can find your "glue" in your relationships, and that making up is always your priority when things irritate you. There is never a reason to let the little things build into a big thing!
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