Ever had a day, week, month, where every question you were asked or thing you were reminded to do sounded like an accusation? OH, YES! That has been the last two weeks, mainly with me and my husband. No, I'm not looking for "advice" or pity because I know that i give as good as I get in the grumpiness department. I can admit it! Just because we are meant to be doesn't mean we don't disagree!
I have heard more than a few women complain about their husbands and how angry they are with them for any number of things. #1-Don't make your husband look like a jerk....and #2-MAKE UP! Married people argue, some more than others, and its a normal part of sharing your lives. I've seen too many people use the big D as their escape from having to admit they may have been wrong about something in their marriage...in legalese this usually is described as irreconcilable differences, HOGWASH! Differences are not marriage destroyers, they are supposed to help "season" it.
There is a quote from one of my favorite movies that comes to my mind during times like this. It's from The Wedding Date. Dermot Mulroney looks at Deborah Messing...after their great big falling out at the end and says, "I'd rather argue with you, than make love with anyone else"....and that's how I look at the these times. I'm blessed to have found the man God made for me, and I choose to not let Satan use my brain against my heart.
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